When I told my wordsy and brainy friend Shari that I felt stuck and unable to blog, she gave me a list of things I could write about. That list will likely be the spring board for future posts like this one.
When I first started thinking about what I like about Guys Mills, the tiny crossroads where I’ve been living the last 3 years, I wanted to be snarky. I wanted to say that the good thing about Guys Mills is that there are roads leading out of it.
But when I started looking for the genuinely nice things about this swampy outback, I found several endearing qualities.
My very favorite thing about this place is that when I’m outside at noon and 6:00 PM, the church bells play a hymn and chime the hour. It heartens me to know that someone is beautifying the world that way.
The bells are in the cupolo on on the far horizon in this picture that I took this evening on my walk home.
Another thing I love about Guys Mills is that the post mistress is the happiest, smiliest lady I’ve ever met in a post office. The place is dingy and very ordinary a far as post offices go, but she is beaming and positive and beyond helpful. “I LOVE my job!”she told me. “On Saturdays I do some things around the place then go across the road and drink coffee with my friend on the front porch of the store while I watch for customers.”
Except she’s not on the front porch during this polar vortex, but she’s still happy in her job and serving us superbly.
If I’d have a new drone to try out around here, there are locals who would shoot it down first and ask questions later. When I walk around the block, I’ve seen enough shady characters that make me always stay vigilant. But at the most decrepit house, the owner always waves politely at me and shushes his barking dogs so they won’t bother me. And the snaggletooth mechanic has given me excellent service for which I’ve been deeply grateful. And another mechanic up the road treats my car as if I’m his daughter.
I’m seeing a pattern here.
The people who program and maintain and care about the church bells.
The delightful post mistress.
The respectful, rough-looking man.
The careful mechanics who make sure my car is safe.
The things I love about this sleepy little place aren’t things but people.
I kinda like that. Because maybe it means that even if it’s winter for 6 months and the deer are constant threats to road/car safety and the sky isn’t big where I live, there are people around, and where there are people, there’s a significant level of dignity and beauty which is really what my soul is hungry for.
I’m so glad you got around to writing this. π Some of my favorite “things” too.
Lovely. Yes, usually when you boil it down to one thing, it’s the people you love.
Delightful description of a wonderful, little village. ππ
I loved in Guys Millsa few months . . . Only about three short months in the winter years ago! . . . I donβt remember the bells particularly . . . But I do remember it was the best Christmas caroling, walking from house to house with the snow gentle falling . . . I like your post!
I enjoyed your blog post, Anita. It is good for the soul to think of things to be thankful for “in the bleak mid-winter.” One thing I love about this area is the abundance of nature trails in the very near vicinity. They have been (and are) balm for my soul when I needed time alone with God. They are also great to hike with family or friends.
Yvonne, you must show me the trails in the spring!
Lovely! Youβve captured the essence of this little community beautifully, much better than any old drone!! π
Because your posts show up in my feed as “promotions” instead of “emails,” I didn’t see this till now. I would have loved to laugh about it yesterday, together. So happy to have inspired a post.
I remember well when, early in my marriage and life in the Guys Mills area, a social activity required us to choose a 1-10 beauty ranking of this place, as compared to all the other places on earth. I was deeply embarrassed when we shared our answers and I realized everyone else was ranking it much, much higher than I was. Oops. Still haven’t forgotten the shame. Or changed my mind. Hehee.
Sorry you missed laughing with Josh and Jean and me about it! She quoted your aunts calling the place a very uncomplimentary term. π
How could I blog without you? Thanks for your help!
So glad you’re blogging again!
I’m glad you’ve found good mechanics. I hear or read horror stories every now and then, and it’s heartening to see an account from someone with great experiences. π